Holy SH*T! It's 2019!

2019.... 20 effing 19. How did I get this old already?

The last time I posted was because I was donating PBSC for Be The Match. To an AMAZING woman, who beat leukemia like the rock star she is. I am so proud to call her my friend!

This new part of my blog is now going to focus on my personal struggles with Borderline Personality Disorder and how I *try* to live a somewhat normal life.

There will be a crap ton of honesty, laughs, tears, and a numerous amounts of "WTF" moments.

I will try to post as much as I can and answer questions as best as possible.

Be patient, it ain't easy being cheesy.

XOXO- Madi

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